A Second Life® Fashion Feed

♥ As a teenager I went all Goth, but I wasn’t mopey enough. I would pretend to be, but I’d end up making people laugh. ♥

Previously posted @ Inside the world of….

As a teenager I went all Goth, but I wasn't mopey enough. I would pretend to be, but I'd end up making people laugh.

*Skin Appliers*
*YS&YS* – Viola – Tone 02 – By Monyka Benell *NEW@Skin Fair 2015*
MarketplaceInworld – Skin Fair 1 - 2

*Body Parts*
*Hands* – Slink – Elegant 1 *MESH*
*Head* – Slink – Visage *MESH*
*Feet* – Slink – High *MESH*
*Body* – Slink – Physique *MESH*
– By Siddean Munro
Marketplace Inworld

Hello Dave – Stiletto Split 03 – 10 – By Maia Gasparini *NEW*

*Facial Piercings*
Punch – Luck Of The Irish – Audrey Septum – Black Steel *RARE/MESH*
Punch – Devil/Demons – Demoness – Black *NEW/MESH*
Punch – Vain – Black *NEW/MESH*
– By May Tremont
Marketplace – Inworld 

Formanails – Buffalo Punk – Black *MESH* – By Ivi Bing *NEW*

Vestigium – Lady Muerta *Slink Applier* – By Vestigium

Catwa – RockStar – Dark Tones C – By Catwa Clip *NEW@BCF*
MarketplaceInworld - Bikers Choice Fair

[Etchaflesh] – Mistress Rin Dress – Red&Black *MESH* – By Shaodie Parx

[Etchaflesh] – Mistress Rin – Thigh Boots *MESH/NEW* – By Shaodie Parx

As a teenager I went all Goth, but I wasn't mopey enough. I would pretend to be, but I'd end up making people laugh.

Thought I’d love to share…

Previously posted @ So Hawt SL.

Thoughts I wish to share

I love the “invention” of the subscriber lists for bloggers.
as a blogger my group lists are almost always full..
i only have maybe two or three groups that are not blogger based and,
only one group available for either work or, the occasional time i join a group to grab the group gift to blog…
or when I am hired to DJ or, maybe as a video-grapher.

the subscriber list offers items to blog without having to take up another group space…


one thing i hate about subscribe blog lists.

now before you think, “omg, another gripe post..”, don’t…
this is for every designer and, blogger out there.. and, trust me when I say there are many.
and we all can relate to this.

speaking from experience.

second life is NOT perfect.
it breaks down, lags out, “forgets” to send notices.

as bloggers, our messages get capped out quickly.
And try as we might, we are unable to pay attention to every single released item that each designer releases.
I am sure some of you think this is harsh but, it’s the truth.
ask any blogger.

so we tend to miss releases..

also, with myself anyway, i see a designer sending me an item to blog as a privilege not, as something that i am entitled too.
so, if i do not receive something they have released i do one of two things.
1. if i like the item, i will go out a buy it.
2. i will wait for the next item they release and be honored if they send it to me or, i buy it if it is something that i like…

- I do not feel right, IMing them and asking for the item.

it is very frustrating to get IMs from designers, upset that i have not blogged an item that they have sent out through a subscriber.
Especially if there are many events happening that week.
i sometimes get capped out 20 mins after i log out, lol… not all the time but, often..

Tableau Vivant uses a subscriber but, their setup is amazing.
they have a piece of land and and, access list.
if you are on this list, you can go to their blogger area and check past notices to see if you have missed anything.

not everyone has this… it would make life so much easier..

now the reason i am mentioning this, yet again…

The explanation/example is based on my personal experience.

Not that i am blaming my illness but, alas… Asperger’s Syndrome  does play a factor in how i perceive things in life.
I am working very hard, every day at not getting upset with people that i do not understand…
I think i have second life to thank for the ability and knowledge to be able to stop and think before i attempt to communicate with people but,
i am not perfect… sometimes.. “stop and think”, does not register…
So when a designer, whose subscriber i am registered on, gets upset at me and removes me for not blogging their items , yes… i am disappointed and the little “logical” person inside my head,
wants to understand the “why” and, to make the designer understand that it was not on purpose,
that i missed the notice and, not knowing that the item had been sent out to the list, complicates things a whole lot more.
Normally, an argument ensues.. and i feel horrible that this conversation that was originally meant to explain that i wish to stay on their lists and,
the reason that i had not blogged something was the fault of Second Life and, not purposely done by me.. then, only ends up not only getting me taken off the list… but, with the designer practically hating me…
and well myself.. hurt because, not only does the person “not” understand me.. but, now thinks i am a raving lunatic………… and, it hurts..

I am a good person… not perfect… but, I have my limits..

Being blamed for something that is literally out of my control.. something that i can not even bend over backwards to fix…. i don’t know how else to say it but, it hurts.

I love blogging…

Sometimes, i set way too high goals for myself..

like with the skin fair.. there are so many amazing designers out there and, i was lucky enough to be one of the bloggers out of what i am sure was, many blogger applications to blog their skins…..
i had it in my head that i could have them all posted before the event started… haha..
uhhh, no.. but, i will have them all posted before the end of the event and, likely posted many times through out the event.

I wish i had the ability to mend bridges that have been burned in the past with designers that had the unfortunate pleasure of being exposed to my more… out of control aspies side…
or, my overly logical side that “needs” to understand everything.. and in the end ends up being a major cluster… blank…
unfortunately, there is nothing i can do….

I know that there are many bloggers (and designers) out there that agree with this issue and,
have had the same run ins with designers vs the subscriber list.. and many of these lovely individuals are 100% in control of their mental capacity…
So i am not the only blogger in sl with subscriber issues..
This also includes when designers send us things offline and, for what ever reason, it doesn’t come through…

I have said this so many times in the past but, i shall say it again……

i wish more designers would take on, Tableau Vivant’s idea and either..

1. create a foyer for bloggers to be able to go and click the subscriber and check recent releases..
2. pick up one of the subscribers that exile has that, checks to see if you are online, before sending you the item…

however, #2 is flawed at times as well because, it only lasts 24 hrs and, not everyone logs on every day to second life. however, it is better then auto sending items then getting upset that the bloggers have not posted your items.

It is an honor when designers choose us to blog their items and, even more amazing when we are added to subscribers or, groups…. but, designers and bloggers need to work together to ensure a positive experience for both parties.
getting angry at each other, it doesn’t help either party.. it only serves to build bridges made of heavy stone that only dynamite can break down… and even then, it may be too late……

I lost someone that i truly thought was at least friendly to me, over not blogging their items, i did not even know had been released to the blogger group/subscriber.
when trying to explain what had happened.. during a particularly hard week of adjusting meds, stress in real life as well as, second life…..
I think it was safe to say I was tense… and though it is no excuse.. it does affect how things are perceived…
although i do understand that the other person involved did not know about my issues that week… it did have an effect on how the conversation went and in the end,
I lost someone i considered a friend……….

I was not banned from their store.. so, i can still purchase their items and, i have been…
I can still blog the items i purchase and, i will but…. that is not really what i am mainly upset about… losing the blogging privileges…
I am more upset that the misunderstanding, miscommunication and, all over stress on both our sides… ended up, just… a huge mess…

I am only sharing this one experience because, many others have had issues like this.

If a designer is going to use the subscribers and don’t get me wrong, it is an awesome idea…
I just think that they should also admit that people vs machines and, virtual environments are flawed.
nothing is ever perfect and, there are errors to which we all can not be held responsible for.. and, it is always good to have a back up plan.
Like Tableau Vivant.

Being prepared for the possible is better then, losing friends and, respect for each other..

anyway.. this all started out as a Facebook note that ended up being long winded and, maybe a tad bit more detailed then a simple status update entailed.
so, i decided to make a blog post about it.

I am very sorry for any grammar issues.. I was on a roll and, although I did proof read and rewrite some parts..
I always miss things.

If you are interested in the above styling info…
please stayed tune.. I will be blogging all of it plus, skin fair info later today.

trust me.. you don’t want to miss it.

thank you for reading.

feel free to comment below <3

JPS 406: ~”EXCLUSIVE”~ (.ID.) Spring Eyes @ Cosmopolitan Event

Previously posted @ JPS Blog.

  (.ID.) Spring Eyes @ Cosmopolitan
 Model: Sytharia Callisto Jinx Neox

Vendor: .Insufferable Dastard.
Name: Spring Eyes
Avatar Components: Eyes
Colors in the Picture:

  • Amber 
  • Indigo

EVENT:   Cosmopolitan Events & Shopping Town

you were everything right and I barely noticed, when I let go, of every single thing I’d ever done wrong.

Previously posted @ Delusional.

This pretty top and skirt won’t be found on the new release wall at Sn@tch but I found them hiding in my inventory and I loved the outfit so much I couldn’t resist blogging it. The hair is new from Truth and the skin is from Belleza and can be found at TLC!

Miamai_XGen Makeup_Basic Lashes B Black – No Hair
:::Sn@tch Kennedy Crop Top (Grey-Med):::
:::Sn@tch Lexi Mini Skirt (White-Med):::
N-core MANICURE-Mesh Nails
-Belleza- Celeste TLC Med 4 R
IKON ‘Sunrise’ Eyes – White M
Pose: Marukin

Mona Lisa, I’d Pay to See You Frown

Previously posted @ Something About Autumn.


Skin: -Glam Affair – Alice Europa – 04 B  @ Shiny Shabby
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Avena
Beauty Mark: The Wicked Peach – Beauty Mark – Laura 1
Sweater: Baiastice_Cleo Sweater-Black @ Collabor88
Skirt: Baiastice_Nayra Long Skirt-Rouge @ Collabor88
Ring: Cae :: Loved :: Ring
Nails:  {Wicked} Peach – Mani/Pedi – Sparkling Wine – Maitreya @  L’Acessories
Pose: Marukin – Kook – Simply me 2

I’d quench that thirst

Previously posted @ Classy Trashy ‘N’ Free.

Hi again ladies, it is raining ice where I live….WHY NO SNOW!? Hurts my heart, but I had a great morning because [RA] has released some new hair for you noggin! The Michelle hair can be found at Cosmo room for a discounted price! Head over and have a look. I hope your day is fantastic! <3


Hair- [RA] Michelle Hair @ Cosmo

Jacket- PEQE – Erynil (S) COMMON – Grey @ FG

Under garments- (NO) Sheer Valentines Set – White @ collab88

Face tatt- NOX. Ethereal [Fatpack] @ Creepy Kawaii

Lips for nyam- Clemmm /// Filthy love @ Cosmetic fair

Cheek definition- .random.Matter. – Contour @ Cosmetic fair

Eyebrow- NOX. Nyx Brows @ Cosmetic fair

Skin- DeeTaleZ Skin A.T.W. Duska Mixedtype


I’d never leave…

Previously posted @ A Fashion Affair.

Originally posted on VERSUS Magazine:

Promise me you’ll never forget me because if I thought you would, I’d never leave…
~A.A. Milne~

Styling Details:
– Dress: :: PM :: Wrapped Dress in Magenta MESH – New release @ The Instruments
– Necklace: [Modern.Couture] Jewelry – Chanele Black Necklace
– Bracelet: Zuri Rayna~Brushed Metals Elite Bangle
– Eyeshadow: Deesses Skins: Jameia – eyeshadows set
– Lipsitck: Izzie’s – Ginevra Vibrant Lipstick
– Hairstyle: Magika [Hair] No

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I’d never leave…

Previously posted @ VERSUS Magazine.

Promise me you’ll never forget me because if I thought you would, I’d never leave…
~A.A. Milne~

Styling Details:
– Dress: :: PM :: Wrapped Dress in Magenta MESH – New release @ The Instruments
– Necklace: [Modern.Couture] Jewelry – Chanele Black Necklace
– Bracelet: Zuri Rayna~Brushed Metals Elite Bangle
– Eyeshadow: Deesses Skins: Jameia – eyeshadows set
– Lipsitck: Izzie’s – Ginevra Vibrant Lipstick
– Hairstyle: Magika [Hair] No

I’d share my fries with you

Previously posted @ The Fashionable Heart.

Style Details:
PantsLegal Insanity –  skinny sweats knitted (unisex)- New in store
Sweater: /// offbeat /// crush and blush 02
Shoes: Mikunch / canvas shoes black at Kustom9
Hair: *Soonsiki! Julian
Skin: [theSkinnery] Meysha – Bare face(toffee)  New in store! 
Glasses: {MYNX} Shades – Tortoise

And I promised I’d never let you down…

Previously posted @ Simply Dou.

Sunday musings…

There is another new year among us. I’ve been looking forward to this year, mostly because of the ending of treatment and the view that is coming due to that. 2014 had started rough – I empowered myself to be a better person and to let go of those who caused me strife. I engaged myself to step up and move on, in my real and second. I started work again, bought a car, did some traveling, stepped back into the dating pool and even was planning a trip to Europe for my birthday. Yet, life likes to challenge you and 2014 challenged the crap out of me. Being diagnosed with cancer was a huge set-back. I didn’t view it as “Oh crap..I’m sick” – I viewed it as “Seriously? Everything I want to do I cannot now due to having to stay in, stay healthy, stay away from crowds.”I’m tired of staying in bed, tired of exhaustion, tired of just being sick…

So, I’ve been looking forward to 2015. 2015 means I’ll slide into home base on being healthy. Cancer will leave, I will be able to do things again. I will be able to travel, see the world (September!) and expand my horizons.

I’ve learned a lot due to this road block though. My body was challenged, tossed through the ringer. I am stronger than I look, mentally and physically. I had my moments (as one should) where I pitied myself because of the unfair situation. But it was just “bad luck”. Cells mutated, divided and chose to play games. I’m okay with that. If I can get through this – than anything that is tossed my way in 2015 I can handle.

As for Second Life – my SL will be mine. an lár [poses] has a new location, TLC is taking off and has new surprises in store (who says we have to be like everyone else?), the support group is always going strong with the help of Asthenia Pinazzo, and I still love to blog…when I can. I am fortunate for what I have done and accomplished here as well as forever grateful.

Thank you to those that held my hand through…you’ve been an inspiration to me. Your words, thoughts, prayers and good karma have surrounded me: Kristen, Billy, Gazi (we miss you), Caelan, Asthenia, Kirsty, Autumn, Harvest, Apple, Agustkov, Jaxon, Howard, Diarmuid, LouLou, Gos, Evankeel, Kaelyn, Arica, and numerous others.

For credits and landmarks, see below <3

For a moment this good time would never end

And I promised I'd never let you downFirst Picture:
On Kat:
coldLogic combo – Wayne in Grey / Damien Fate, Janie Marlowe, & Zyrra Falcone
coldLogic scarf – Wayne in Cocoa Snowflake / Damien Fate, Janie Marlowe, & Zyrra Falcone
coldLogic leggings – Johns in Pink (cuff1) / Damien Fate, Janie Marlowe, & Zyrra Falcone
*League* Winter Wedge Boots / Nena Janus
Glam Affair – Amberly II in Jamiaca 02 G / Aida Ewing
TRUTH Hair – Aspen / Truth Hawks

On Billy:
FATEwear Coat – Harrington in Snow / Damien Fate
FATEwear Pants – Brad in Void / Damien Fate
FATEwear Scarf – Harrington in Snow / Damien Fate
ISPACHI – Leopold Boots / Diarmuid Miklos
*Birth* Thor Skin in Light
Exile – Unravel / Kavar Cleanslate

Pose: Sari-Sari – Caught You! (RARE) / AnneAbby *TLC*

Second Picture:
On Kat:
[monso] My Mouton Jacket in Black/ Morphine Jannick *Uber*
Emery – Zoe Leopard Skirt in Pure / Sunami Black *FaMESHed*
REIGN – Moccasin Boots in Black / Kenadeecole
Glam Affair – December II in Jamiaca 01 F / Aida Ewing *Uber*
Maitreya – Mesh Body Lara / Oynx LeShelle
TRUTH Hair – Harmony / Truth Hawks *NEW*

MANDALA – Steking Ears Season 5 / Kikunosuke Eel

On Billy:
[monso] My Mouton Jacket in Brown/ Morphine Jannick *Uber*
ISPACHI – Casual Jeans / Diarmuid Miklos
ISPACHI – Leopold Boots / Diarmuid Miklos
*Birth* Reese in Light
Exile – Better Days / Kavar Cleanslate

Pose: RACK Poses “Dreams” / Kirsty Oherlihy *OneWord*

Location: An Lar Estates

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