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From Dusk to Dawn I can be many different people at different times. It all depends upon who I am with and who I talk too throughout the day and whether I am at work or home. Unfortunately though, I do know one part of me that never changes and that is my introversion side.
Do you know someone who needs hours alone every day? Who loves quiet conversations about feelings or ideas, and can give a dynamite presentation to a big audience, but seems awkward in groups and maladroit at small talk? Who has to be dragged to parties and then needs the rest of the day to recuperate? Who growls or scowls or grunts or winces when accosted with pleasantries by people who are just trying to be nice? If so, perhaps you have stumbled on an Introvert. Do you want to say to this person, Are you okay? Do you regard them as aloof, quiet, possibly arrogant, or rude?
Did you ever think that just possibly they may be shy and are not intending to be rude at all? Well this can be me sometimes.
Extroverts on the other hand (my alter ego) dominate public life. If we introverts ran the world, it would no doubt be a calmer, saner, more peaceful sort of place. Extroverts have an endless appetite for talk and attention, dominate social life, so they tend to set expectations. In our ‘extrovertist’ society, being outgoing is considered normal and therefore desirable, a mark of happiness, confidence, leadership. Extroverts are seen as bighearted, vibrant, warm, and empathic. “People person” is a compliment. Introverts are described with words like “guarded,” “loner,” “reserved,” “taciturn,” “self-contained,” “private”—narrow, ungenerous words, words that suggest emotional parsimony and smallness of personality. In certain circles, a man can still sometimes get away with being what they used to call a strong and silent type; introverted women however are seen as timid, withdrawn, haughty.
So next time you are talking to someone and they go quiet, it may be that they are simply shy or the Introvert type. There is nothing wrong with that..just be patient and they will get to know you in the quiet way.
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